This morning,watched Oprah's Lifeclass which one of her reality show.To me,this show give me a lot of encourage in life especially this morning topic.BULLIED. korang jangan cakap tak tahu apa itu BULI?? *memang nak kena masuk kelas displin laah ni.hukhuk. this is the reality that happened nowdays and surrounding us.The reality that sometimes i didn't want to accept and admit it! cause this really pain and hurting me.Everyone each have personal space but why this bullies trying to suck it. This topic had remind me into my school life,the reality that i had be a victim with this BULLIED! its hard for me to admit here,but i think i'd should shared my experience even though it was hard.
Their using stringency by trying to broken my properties and scolded me with bad words.Not only that,their also used talent in vandalisms at my study desk.Every time i walk into classes their'll stared at me and laughed just like their owned the room.*ade rase macam ugly betty pon ade time tuh.Some of them,trying be nice with me inside pretending like she's don't have ideas who's make all this to me.*inilah namenye backstabber! Korang must be wondering right,why i'm not going to return or revenge to them.
i'll always bare in my mind,that Allah swt always with me no matter where i am. And that why,i'd trying be patience and be positive in every hard situation them makes.
i'm try told the teachers but its not worked at all.Their will said "ignored" or "nothings gonna happens".Honestly,i'm suck with that word! their not in my situation. As usual,i'm pretend like nothings happens and reacted like the same me.*smile and be nice.
But i'm thankful cause had given a really caring besties at hostel and class.Understanding and support me all the time.Tidak membalas tidak semestinya aku penakut or coward! i'm just waited the right time.
In the main time,i'll keep improved myself in front them and be stay! *Hati Kering,maybe sebab tuh dieorg geram dengan aku kot!
when that time comes, don't reply but stay calm.
Pendekatan Psychology yang aku guna adalah,makes them feel guilty what had them done. This is the way i'm handle the bullied.but nasib bukan semuanya sama.
Enoughlah,malas nak cerita apa jadi kat dieorang.hihi
just my advices,if you're in this situation Handle it with the best way.if you thinks that learn martial art will defending yourself (go ahead). if you thinks,with showed to them you're not scared or coward (go ahead). if you're thinks,by be patience and ignored was the best way (go ahead). whatever it is make sure you're not hurting yourselves and makes your self-confidence become weakens.
from Oprah's Lifeclass shows,
>To express our feeling to bullies we can use our body language.Such as Yelling and tell them the truth!
but sometimes this can't worked. This bullies is getting cap the climax if their dignity had challenged by the victim.
>Everyone around that saw this bullied , their should act with helping the victim.NOT just saw and be quiet.
this is totally agree! cause this community issues should everyone involved too.Yeaah,maybe their scared to hurt.let see if the victim was your siblings or families? are you going to see and quiet that that time? ask yourself! >Positive influence from best friends one of the best way to helping.
agree,but sometimes the best friend also had bullied.that way,neither you're best friend or just friend. HELP the victim!
Kids that have bullied was a good kids,their don't want to disappointing the parents by not telling their had bullied cause can't protecting themselves.
eh,muke cam britney spears jerr..jeng-jeng..
Happy reading people,Yang baik itu datang dari ALLAH SWT,Yang buruk itu datang dari kelemahan diri saya. (^-^)
salam readers,
alahai dah berape hari tak update blog ini.huhuhu.rindu pulak terasanyer!heeeheh.
last days,ontheway nak gi kerja.ternampak pulak mamat cute ini bawak Vespa.'eeh,giler cute pula hehe'
okey back to the title.
Pagi tadi,before pergi kerja.myra pasang radio hot fm.kecoh pasal kes excident and apa masyarakat sekitar akan buat apabila lihat kemalangan berlaku didepan mata dan banyak respond yang diperolehi.antaranya ada yang membantu mangsa kemalangan dan ada juga yang sekadar melihat. mungkinkah perspective bahawa 'NANTI ADA ORANG LAIN AKAN TOLONG' yang membuatkan orang ramai membiar mangsa terkontang-kanting kesakitan?
satu panggilan yang menarik perhatian myra,panggilan dari seorang pakcik yang ingin berkongsi ceritanya.pakcik ini boleh dikatakan seorang pengembaralah cause die dah banyak travel seluruh dunia,just one day die rase macam terkilan sebab kes ini berlaku di Malaysia,di penang.pakcik ini telah menolong seorang remaja akibat kemalangan dan hantar ke hospital.apabila remaja tersebut dirawat,pakcik ini telah disoal siasat oleh polis.'kenapa pakcik tolong budak tuh,pakcik tahu tak nanti pakcik perlu naik mahkamah pastu kene jumpe lawyer lagi' hah!lebih kurang macam tuhlah pakcik tuh disoal.aaiiih macam pakcik tuh pulak yang bersalah .hey,negara kita ada undang-undang lah! kenapa jadi macam ini.kesian pakcik tuh,niat die betul dan ikhlas tapi kenapa mesti perlu hadapi semua ini.
lain pulak kesnyer di negara luar,
seperti video di China yang ditayang semalam pada buletin 8.30 malam di tv3.seorang kanak-kanak berumur 2 tahun bernama Yuen di langgar oleh sebuah van,dahlah langgar dilanyak lagi sekali.then,orang yang lalu lalang boleh pulak buat 'donno' jer! myra dapat tahu cerite ni pun dari member-member,then balik kerje jer myra terus ushar blogs and youtube and finally i found it at someone name namee.
honestly,sedih sangat tengok video tuh tambahan lagi bile mak Yuen meraung-raung menangis.*mak mane tak sebak anak dikandung 9 bulan kene langgar tanpa belas kesihan.
dari video ini kita boleh lihat macamana sensitivity masyarakat disana kan.
update terbaru.adek Yuen telah disahkan meninggal dunia setelah kritikal akibat dilanggar tempoh hari.
"hey van driver !!! puas hati kau sekarang!!"
see,this boy name's Travy.customer son's.giler talkative sampai aku tak terlayan.die and parents die tourist kt KL ini.hehe.made in pakistan.tengok! myra sayang tau kanak-kanak,kalau lah boleh peluk adek Yuen tuh saat-saat terakhir..Masyallah Allah swt sahaje yang tahu perasaan ini.=/
~semoga cerita ini menjadi iktibar pada semua.
may god bless you'll ^.^
hey,i wanna continue my entry music in my life when in secondary school tuhh! i had told you i wanna make a list right? so here are the list! but the end i will select top 3 my superb songs 'wajib' i heard everyday! hurmm..before that,give me time ( actually saya tak mandi lagi sejak bile kerja tadi,huhu.)
after 30 minutes..
okey i'm done!! huhu *,*
i am once more-zee avi
bitter heart-zee avi
time to love (TTL) -t ara feat supernova
sway-PCD
ignorance-paramore
decode-paramore
brick by boring-paramore
nobody (english version)-wondergirl
fireflies-owl city
last night-puff daddy
lucky-jason mraz feat colbie cailat
i do-colbie cailat
big girl don't cry-fergie
clumsy-fergie
capital E-bittersweet
airplane-hayley feat B.OB
who says-selena gomez
a year without rain-selena gomez
impossible-rihanna
cry-rihanna
the lonely-christina perri
jar of heary-christina perri
one in million-ne yo
lalaland-demi lavato
mercy-duffy
vanilla twilight-owl city
mine-taylor swift
perfect two-auburn
fly away-ariana dvornik
if i die young-band perry
abracadabra-brown eyes girls
grenade-bruno mars
just the way you are-bruno mars
waahh! enough laa..(terover pulak saye ney) ^-^
okay here is my top 3 favorite songs!
*top 3
the lonely-christina perry
*top 2
who says-selena gomez
*top 1
Time to love -t ara feat supernova
enjoy it peeps!!
note: this is my favorite songs it doesn't matter the songs is mine but it also yours..we should be thankful to the person who had create the lyrics and not forgotten to the singer.
for me,it will take the 'positive means' by 'negative words'.
salam readers,
today i want continue my entry music in my life~when in kindergarten.well,actually i tried remember my favourite music when i in primary school but still 'no answer' too many memories should i memorize. wah! sejak bile aku dah tue nie??.now,i wanna share my favourite music when in secondary school.there's a lot of songs that i really damn liked neither in english or malay! but i'll show you what i liked most and i still keep it the songs in my laptop and handphone.
* NEVER SAY GOODBYE ~mario and nesty OST my girl
if you are Korean admirer,this drama's must included on your list! this drama 'best sangat' my heart melting when looked at the actor~~so...sooooo handsome! haha,yaww now i became gedik one! this song symbolize my friendship between Naz,Elly,Bie,Fay and Mar.which is there my schoolmates and we had meet in choir group.our friendship really close and insyallah till the end.the words 'never say goodbye' meaning we're not leave each other no matter what!
*SEASON IN THE SUN ~westlife
this songs to me really touched my little tiny heart,it describe what i felt.the lyrics got the real means,it happened to someone life.with this songs,i learn to appreciate people around me.especially the closer one
*FLY~hillary duff
i love the words 'trust yourself and don't give up you know you better than anyone else'
when i felt like want felt down in everything,this song give me spirit words and it bring me up!
any moment..everything can change...
*SURATAN ATAU KEBETULAN ~premelodic
this song have sentimental value to someone that had come in my life. this song is our favorite song and i will keep it till the end to show how's i appreciated him for become someone in my heart neither it just a while.
next entry,i will make a list my favorite songs when in campus life! see ya!!
Clarification Dream~its provides insight into your experience of a current or past situation.
Orang-orang lame said,this dream happened because you always thinking and remembered to your
past situation
Interaction Dream~involves contact with another person, often a loved one who has passed...
otherwise,this dream comes when you lose someone or missed someone.
Message Dream ~contains information from a source outside of yourself.
hurm,this kind of 'petanda'what will happen to you.Maybe?
Premonition Dream ~predicts or gives some indication of actual future event.
this dream,such as want you to feel 'tempias-tempias' the event or maybe your future plan.
Timeline Dream~presents a sequence of events or elements from a portion of your life
its about your life timeline,just sometimes we don't take seriously about this dream.
Symbolic dream~contains symbolism when one or more key elements, or symbols.
haven't you had dream, suddenly appear a ring or maybe clothes. some people said,if your dream appear a ring its means someone gonna purpose you.Maybe?
Toxic Dream~usually a very realistic, upsetting dream that is most likely to occur.
i think this kind of dream that you hated most right? who want get this dream its gonna spoil our morning wakeup.
p/s:whatever it is,believe in yourself and let it to ALLAH SWT.insyallah.
this my dreams,to share everything with someone in future,hehehe.
friends,please watch this video.. honestly, i cried after watched it. friends.. please don't do this to your mum.. she's had brings yourself into this world.. if she had makes mistakes,forgive her.. don't scolded her infornt others.. one more things.. what kind of 'ANAK' that willing leave her mum liked that.. remember..right now you can do anything to your mum.. but next day..your children will do the same..or more worse. Nak ke? please take 'teladan' from this video..